-Winnie the Pooh

" “If you live to be a hundred, I hope I live to be a hundred minus one day, so that I never have to live a day without you.”

Jake and I met at Rutgers during our freshman year. I lived on the floor above him and we had philosophy class together. Since I missed the first few weeks of school, Jake would help me get caught up on my work, even reading the textbook to me when I didn’t feel like studying. Over the next few months, we spent more and more time together and on May 4th, 2013 Jake asked me to be his girlfriend by sneaking a poem in the bill at a fancy dinner. Fast forward through the years, we’ve realized our love for travel and adventure. We’ve adopted 3 rescue kitties who we are slightly obsessed with and found mutual hobbies like running and watching Marvel movies. Through the years we’ve lived in New Brunswick, Jersey City and now planting roots in Tinton Falls.

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The constant through all of our life changes is the love we have for each other. We make sure to enjoy life together and I find new reasons to love him each and every day. Our personalities complement each other: Jake being focused on the “now”, while I like to make sure we have everything in our life planned out. No matter the challenges we face, we always know that we are a team and can take on anything together.

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Knowing that one of Allie's and mine favorite activities is traveling and exploring the world, I knew that a proposal in Italy was the perfect plan. What I didn't realize is how hard it is to keep anything secret from her ... or TSA. Hiding the ring in any nook and crevice I found in my apartment, I was able to (not) sneakily bring the ring with me as we went through Newark airport. I found out months later that while she was helping pack our suitcases she found the ring in my nightstand and knew the whole time. Thankfully, she gave me a few months of thinking I was good at keeping things secret. 

How we Met >

Once in Italy, it was a picture-perfect memory - beautiful scenery, great food, tons of laughter, and Italian humidity that made you fuse with any seat you sat on. As we neared the engagement, I felt more and more nervous; I needed this to be a memory that Allie always remembers fondly with a smile from ear-to-ear. I had been contacting a photographer the past few weeks who helped set up a gondola ride and we met with in the middle of town. As we boarded the gondola, all I could remember was looking at her and the two of us constantly laughing and smiling, even before the proposal. We laughed so much that even the photographer had to ask us to try and act serious to no avail. When I finally did ask her to marry me, she was so nervous that she said "YES" before I finished actually asking her.

Meet Our Wedding Party

We kind of adore them!

groom

jake

Bride

allie

Sister & MOH

victoria

Sister & MOH

rachel

childhood bff & Best man

larry

College friend

michael

COLLEGE FRIEND

zach

high school best friend

Breanna

HIGH SCHOOL BEST FRIEND

Sarah

College Roomie

julia

COLLEGE FRIEND

andrew

Brother

danny

sister in law

meredith

COLLEGE FRIEND

chris

COLLEGE FRIEND

silvio

ring bearers

shane, chase, & ryder